Ladies and gentlemen I know you have heard the infamous "Sideline Hoe" song by Monica. This song has always bothered me because of the message it sends out. If you don't know the song it goes,
"Get your shit together you're making a fool of yourself, It don't matter if he spends the night his home is
somewhere else. Ain't you tired of being on the side line, tired of getting yours after i gets mine baby"
somewhere else. Ain't you tired of being on the side line, tired of getting yours after i gets mine baby"
This song sends out the message that if you are a man's main girl, it doesn't matter who else he chooses to be with and sleep with and exchange bodily fluids with. But because you are his main girl you get the trophy right? No, you get the trophy for being a "DUMB HOE."
If you allow your man to go out and knowingly sleep with other women while you taunt these girls for being "sideline hoes" makes you stupid as hell. It is women like these that make men feel like they can step out whenever they please and make women seem insecure and unstable. Ladies, please stop going around chanting these songs because you are just as simple as the girls your man is fu*king.
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Well put. I could not agree with you more! <3
ReplyDeleteVery true. Not too many people share that thought though which is unfortunate.
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